Situationship is no longer an alien word. Almost everyone knows what it means. You think you are in a relationship when in actuality you are in a situationship. According to Healthline, it is a romantic relationship that’s undefined or uncommitted that may be based on convenience or short-term circumstances. It could also involve physical intimacy.
Some folks have knowingly or unknowingly stayed in this state because they did not realize they were in it or they were afraid to define it or hoping it would blossom into a lovely relationship. While the latter is sometimes the case, there are others that can lead to heartbreak, depression and waste of time.
To avoid being in a situationship, you need to define your relationship and if you are not sure what you are, ask your partner again once you see these 6 attributes that look like a situationship.
1. I’m too busy to call
If he or she can’t call you the whole day and week, they are just not into you. They keep telling you it’s their nature and you have to learn how to adjust to it. But they have time to play Ps5, watch a match, attend a party, any other fun thing except call you. You are in a situationship and need to define your relationship.
2. Nothing to say
Unless it was an arranged marriage you are preparing for, you have no business being in a relationship where the two of you are bored and can’t talk to each other, except to ask ‘how are you’ and ‘how was work’. Yeesh.
3. You’ve been Friendzoned
So, he never asked you out but you always hang out together. He tells you he can’t do without you but when you are out with his friends he introduces you as ‘one the guys’ or ‘my little sis’. Biko, ask him what you are before you fall in too deep.
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4. You do not know the family members or friends
The relationship never progresses past the two of you spending time together. Because of that, you are not factored in with plans involving family members and friends. Ask to meet them.
5. Let’s not tag it
They are out there. They do not want to give the relationship enough because it is cheesy or it will jinx it. They want the benefits of the affair in private, but no one what you two are, neither both of you.
6. His/her plan does not involve you
If his/her future plan has nothing to do with you, then you need to worry because he or she is not thinking about you in the long term. Again, you need to find out you two truly are.
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