‘Men are scum!’ How many times have you heard these words? But were they really scum or were there signs that showed that they were just not into you from the onset?
Of course, there are relationships with genuinely crappy partners, but there are also love interest that was only in your mind, where you built a castle and you both lived happily ever after.
While you wonder if your crush is into you, we have a few pointers suggesting you move on and leave the imaginary world back there for kids.
Please, note that these pointers are not recommendations from a love doctor, just random guys gist:
1. When he doesn’t call back
No, it’s not because his phone was stolen or he had struck his head and had amnesia. If he thinks about you, he will call you. If not, just know that he is not just into you.
2. When he says he doesn’t want to label it
If you meet the type that doesn’t want to call you girlfriend, in public, it means he doesn’t want people to think you are an item. Run for your life!
3. When he says he’ll be out of reach on a trip to Calabar
What happened to the network there? Or is that just an excuse to not have to talk to you? If he’s into you, he’d find reception and time to give you a call.
4. He is never jealous
If you like, put up the pictures of three guys on your WhatsApp status, he will not ask about them because he is not interested.
5. You only know his name and the car he drives
He wouldn’t tell you anything about himself. Some don’t even know the guys’ line of work, just the colour of the car he drives. He is not secretive, he just doesn’t want you to know about him.
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6. He never asks anything about you
He doesn’t care to know anything about you either. He is not interested in meeting any member of your family or friends.
7. He’s always bored
Whenever he manages to hang out with you, he always looks bored, looking at the time or ignoring you and playing video games. Ouch, girl.
8. Irritates easily
If he snaps out little things, makes you feel small or incompetent, it’s not because you are lousy, he’s just frustrated as to how to explain he doesn’t like you that much. Take a hint sister and skedaddle.
9. He tells you about his other interests
If the guy you are interested in is always telling you about the girls he asked out or wants to ask out, darling, he is not doing it to make you jealous, he is simply telling you the truth. He is interested in someone else.
10. He says you are not his type
If he tells you this, believe it. It is not some elaborate scheme to get you wanting him more. You are simply not his type. Guys claim to be straightforward and do not have secret meanings hidden in sentences.
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